Feeling alone

ToddRogue69 · Joined: 25 Dec 2015 Posts: 438

Has anybody here ever had one those days when you just feel so alone and sad? I know I have, I’ve also been one of those unfortunate people who has never had the privilege of having a lover. Now I know that I just need to wait and that I will meet her eventually, I just get so lonely sometimes.

Now I do have a few friends outside of the internet and I do hang out with them, it’s just I don’t get the chance to hang out with them very often as I would love to. But I also don’t know what to talk to them about because they aren’t furries like I am.

But I generally have a hard time socializing with people, this is because I have Asperger’s and I don’t really know how to properly communicate with people. And I tend to have a hard time expressing myself. Sometimes I just don’t know what to do.
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Caroline · Joined: 22 Dec 2008 Posts: 2173

(( ToddRogue69,

Well... sometimes that just happens.

While the forum here tends to be quiet, if nothing else, posting here can help you practice some about "talking" with others. Shoot, you've been the biggest rash of postings and re-engaging people in a while.

Anyway, not much from here. I'm not the most chatty either, but... that's just because I'm not the most talkative. ))

ToddRogue69 · Joined: 25 Dec 2015 Posts: 438

Caroline wrote: (( ToddRogue69,

Well... sometimes that just happens.

While the forum here tends to be quiet, if nothing else, posting here can help you practice some about "talking" with others. Shoot, you've been the biggest rash of postings and re-engaging people in a while.

Anyway, not much from here. I'm not the most chatty either, but... that's just because I'm not the most talkative. )) That’s very kind of you to say Caroline. I really do want to get you know you guys as best as I can, and to also be as dedicated to this community as possible. I’m very honored to be among such nice and caring people like you guys. :D

Rune174 · Joined: 29 May 2009 Posts: 6010

It does happen to a fair few of us, and sometimes you can find a few coping tools. Sometimes watching a good show helps, or playing games. For me, I do all of those or go to card shops to mingle with other people. Then there is family that you enjoy being around that you wouldn't happen to live with.

I'm sure you'll figure something out, though I couldn't speak for you even if I tried lol. So here is to hoping that you do get over that depression.

ToddRogue69 · Joined: 25 Dec 2015 Posts: 438

Rune174 wrote: It does happen to a fair few of us, and sometimes you can find a few coping tools. Sometimes watching a good show helps, or playing games. For me, I do all of those or go to card shops to mingle with other people. Then there is family that you enjoy being around that you wouldn't happen to live with.

I'm sure you'll figure something out, though I couldn't speak for you even if I tried lol. So here is to hoping that you do get over that depression. Thank you, Rune174

Rune174 · Joined: 29 May 2009 Posts: 6010

ToddRogue69 wrote: Rune174 wrote: It does happen to a fair few of us, and sometimes you can find a few coping tools. Sometimes watching a good show helps, or playing games. For me, I do all of those or go to card shops to mingle with other people. Then there is family that you enjoy being around that you wouldn't happen to live with.

I'm sure you'll figure something out, though I couldn't speak for you even if I tried lol. So here is to hoping that you do get over that depression. Thank you, Rune174
You are most certainly welcome ^^